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Claire Coley's avatar

This was so good, Becky.

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Becky Isjwara's avatar

thanks so much, Claire!

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Matt Cyr's avatar

Thank you Becky for this post. One of these days I look forward to speaking openly with you about this.

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Becky Isjwara's avatar

Looking forward to it 🫡

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Steven Foster's avatar

It's haunting we still use the language of lovers to describe our relationship with labor. An important reminder as ever. Well done Becky.

This piece had me meditating on my own words regarding this subject:

https://stevenfoster.substack.com/p/commit-a-career-ending-move

As always, I look forward to reading your thoughts on this journey. In a way, it feels like many of us who have exited corporate lives are on an Exodus and it's good to have friends in this wildness. My best to you always

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Becky Isjwara's avatar

I still remember your uncle's words - passion is for the bedroom!

Love having buddies out in the wild like you 👋🏼

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Karena's avatar

Wow. Everything I wanted to say, written in GenZ/Millennial-speak. And with my Future of Work hat firmly on I say "Hallelujah!, EXACTLY what Becky is saying" ... my job felt lighter. I just saw it as one source of income, and I was trying to actively build another."

Best phrase award: "Companies aren’t committing to you for life. They’re hedging across a harem."

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Becky Isjwara's avatar

!!! Omigosh yes this IS the future of work!

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Linart Seprioto's avatar

dude your post is making me wanna keep publishing again - i can only imagine how scary it was to put yourself out there given the contract, and that makes all the work you did even more amazing! (i'm also wondering if i should also have an alias just in case 🤣)

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Becky Isjwara's avatar

LMAO my lack of an alias didn't cost me anything... yet 😅😂

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lucky bunny's avatar

came at a good time! felt like a sign that i should start brainstorming more seriously on that side hustle!

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Becky Isjwara's avatar

LET"S GOOOOOO

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Humeira's avatar

Took me a while to get started, and I eventually did it at the beginning of the year unapologetically (i’m yet to make my first $ on the side). I came to find out and it’s so freeing haha.. This is the way forward!! 🫡

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Becky Isjwara's avatar

Look at you go 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

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Michelle Elisabeth Varghese's avatar

The post covid years have really shown people across industries that loyalty is a one way street when it comes to corporate. Totally agree with you here! I find the best people to work with don’t mind if you have side projects. It’s the exclusivity clauses that we should be suspicious of.

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Becky Isjwara's avatar

My ex-employer literally had "you should declare influencer income" on their contract. That scared me for a good while!

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